“Would You Like To
Avoid People’s Games,
Connect More Authentically With Others, And Get The Rewarding Social Life
You’ve Always Wanted…?”

If you’ve ever wanted to TRANSFORM YOURSELF
from shy and socially awkward
into an amazing social leader,
you’re about to learn information
that will absolutely change your life…

 

CARLOS XUMA’S DESK: Friday, 5:43 PM.

The one skill that they don’t teach you about in school is also the one that will either make you a great success in life, or struggle like crazy to realize your dreams… and you might never reach them.

I’m going to tell you all about this skill in a second, but first let me ask you a couple questions:

• • Have you ever been in a social situation where you just knew someone was messing with you, but you didn’t know what to do about it?
  • Have you ever had someone in your family that just knew exactly how to put you on the spot – and they’d leave you with that shaky, angry feeling because you knew you’d been made a fool out of?
  • Have you ever known a person who could just predict everything you were going to say, and leave you with no ammo at all, and you felt like you were totally manipulated? And FRUSTRATED?
    
  • Did you ever suspect there are unwritten “rules” to socializing that you just don’t “get”? That if you just knew the “rules” that these people are using for their games, you could at least be on a level playing field?
  • Do you ever feel like you’ve missed opportunities with somebody – maybe a romantic interest – because you don’t have the right skills to respond correctly and make the interaction “count” for more?
  • Do you often feel like you’re missing a depth and a level of relationship connection that you want to achieve because you don’t understand how to get past your partner’s games?

Now, on the other hand, have you ever been with someone who:

• Could de-fuse any confrontation and make friends in the process?
• Could spot when they were being played or manipulated – and somehow turn it back around on the other person?
• Always knew the right thing to say to put someone in their place?
• Knew how to read a social situation in just a few seconds and “feel out” everyone in the group?

 

I always wanted to be that person.

I was so shy growing up that I never really got an understanding of social dynamics the way some people seemed to. They always seemed so natural with it, too, which made it even harder to believe that I’d ever figure it out.

A long while back, I remember going to a singles party where everyone was really uptight and hard to talk to. I felt a little uncomfortable because it felt like they weren’t really there to meet people and have fun.

You might recognize some of the clues I saw of weird “gamey” behavior at this party:

• A lot of the guys were very aggressive and insecure…
• Many of the women seemed guarded and distant – and I found myself suckered into buying drinks – without getting any phone numbers…
• A lot of people seemed to push emotional buttons on me like I was a remote control…
• Almost no one there seemed like they were there to have a good time… they all seemed to have an agenda.

You probably figured this out already, but what I felt and didn’t recognize until later was this:

“Everyone Was Playing Me!
And Playing Social Games With Me…”

The experience felt so awful at the time, and the people seemed so difficult, mostly because I didn’t know how to handle it when people played social games with me. The party probably wasn’t as bad as I remember it, but my social skills were.

And I’ve still found people like this lurking almost everywhere in my life. At work, at the bars and clubs, at parties and social gatherings… even at family gatherings.

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You May Have
Felt This Way Before…

Maybe you’ve experienced something like my bad “party experience,” or even situations like this:

• – You go to a car dealership to shop around and you don’t want to buy anything, but after several hours you find yourself driving home in a new car that you had no intention of buying. But he made it sound so good, and you got a SWEET deal… How did you fall for that…?
• – You’re in a meeting with a co-worker, and she starts to undermine your abilities and performance in the meeting, but you can’t figure out how she’s doing it because she’s not directly insulting you. What kind of Game is she playing…?
• – You’re hanging out with your friends and someone makes a sly comment about you, and they all chuckle. You go along with it because you don’t want to look like you’re “uptight” or “un-cool.” But somewhere deep inside, you know you were just put-down… Do you know how to deal with it…?
• – You’re at a family get-together, having dinner together, and your mother starts bugging you about your job, and starting to manipulate you with guilt and fear. As usual, you end up angry and blow up, and eventually you tell her to mind her own business. You end up looking like the jerk, but it was the way she did it that pushed your buttons… How do you stop this from happening…?
• – You’re out with a friend, and you see a couple of women you want to go talk to. Finally your friend drags you over and you start talking with them. The longer you talk, though, the more your friend seems to be the one getting the attention, and you start getting more and more quiet… How can you stop feeling socially awkward and stay in the conversation…?

I’m pointing these situations out because I have been through ALL of them. And every time one of them happened, I thought of the perfect thing to say to handle the situation – only an hour too late.

Wouldn’t it be great if you could think of the right thing to say in these situations to destroy the game-playing right away – instead of later as you’re walking away…?

But This Is The
REALLY Scary Part…

The games other people play with us are NOTHING compared to the games we play on ourselves.

You see, there’s two kinds of games going on out there – the games we play with other people, and the ones we play in our own heads.

You want an example of one that every guy can relate to?

You’re talking with a woman at a bar, and the conversation is going well. She obviously needs to leave, and you know it’s time to go for the close. So you ask her:

“Hey, can I have your phone number to talk with you again? Maybe go out for a bite sometime?”

She tells you she’s not home that much or she would give it to you. “But give me your phone number and I’ll call you,” she says. You give her your number, even though you know at the back of your head that won’t hear from her. You know – deep in your gut – that you needed to just push a little more for her number so that you could make that second meeting happen.

But you gave in and wussed out.

What happened?

This is a classic game that a lot of guys play inside their own heads where they will settle for giving their own phone number on the wishful thinking that they impressed her so much that she’ll “definitely call!”

Even though we know that only 1 in 50 women ever will. (Probably much fewer…)

It’s a way for us to let ourselves down easy, and not risk coming away with nothing at all for the time we spent talking to her. After all, there’s still a chance she’ll call… isn’t there?

The skill of knowing how to handle your own internal games is something called “intra-personal skills,” and it’s something I will touch on again in a minute…

“Read My Lips –
No More Games…!”

I’m sick of all the games.

I bet you are, too, aren’t you? And you’re absolutely right to be sick of them.

There’s something else I want you to know that is VERY important…

How you handle the social games people play will determine:

• • How much money you will make at your job…
  • The quality of person you date … and wind up marrying…
  • How much fun you have when you go out with friends…
  • The depth and intimacy you have in your relationships – with your family, your friends, and your lover…
  • Your overall level of happiness, security, and confidence that you experience every day…

 

Does that sound serious to you?

It should, because in nearly EVERY study performed on the happiest, the most successful, the most fulfilled people in the world, they all came back with the same finding, time after time after time.

This probably won’t come as a surprise to you, but the discovery was this:

Your level of:

*Happiness*
*Financial success*
*Inner Fulfillment*
*Quality of Life*

and how attractive you are
to the opposite sex
is DIRECTLY related to
how strong your social skills are…

This has nothing to do with genetics, intelligence, or the forces that you might think of as being “out of your control…”

It really has nothing to do with upbringing or social status, either…

In nearly every person with any great level of success and fulfillment in their lives, the only thing that mattered was how well they managed the other people in their lives.

WOW…

I was blown away when I discovered that, and it really changed the way I looked at the world. For years I had believed that there were certain people who were just luckier than others, or just had the gift of “people skills…”

I thought that was why some guys just got more women than others, and why some women are more successful with men. They must be smarter or better looking, and that’s why they got more dates than me.

I just accepted this belief that these people had something “special” – a natural talent that I didn’t have.

Every time I saw my friends being more successful with socializing, being more popular with other people – and the more that I didn’t make friends, or attract women, or make connections – the more I reinforced that false belief.

What I didn’t realize was that I was creating this flawed foundation upon which my entire social life – and even my dating life – was being built. It was shaky and unsteady, and it couldn’t possibly help me get the kind of lifestyle I wanted to live.

Look, I have to admit something…

Until I was in my late 20s, I was socially CLUELESS.

I would go out and not have the faintest idea of how to handle a conversation when I got into it. I usually ended up talking about the one topic I knew the most.

You know how they say that you should “talk about what you know about”?

Well the problem was, the only topic I talked about was ME.

I would just yammer on and on about my life and all about me, not understanding how it was turning people off. Or I just wouldn’t see what was going on in the conversation to figure out when I was being manipulated or de-valued.

I was making a lot of OTHER social mistakes, too, without even knowing it…

This lack of social skill and ability was killing a BIG part of my social life.

“The LESS success I got socially,
the MORE it seemed to
lower my self-esteem
in other areas, too…”

And I would get VERY self-conscious in social situations, because I always felt like other people were getting the better of me, or that they were just waiting to use something I said against me in some way.

This might sound a little paranoid, but when you don’t know how to handle people’s games, you do start to get very defensive.

I even found myself becoming very negative about people in general. I started avoiding social situations because I didn’t have a very good opinion of other people. And I didn’t have a good opinion because of how I felt after talking with them or feeling like I was being “played.”

For a while there I got pretty angry about it, too.

Maybe you’ve felt similar to this from time to time, too. That other people are just flaky, manipulative, and self-centered…?

And – even worse – you start to feel like you can’t trust anybody, either… You want to, but you get a little frustrated because you can’t figure out what’s going on in their games.

Now that I’m older, I can see these situations for what they are, but I also realized this:

NO ONE out there shows you
how to spot these social games
and avoid them in the first place…

 

Really. Think about it:

Nope.

Yet it’s being done to you all the time.

And usually you figure it out after they’ve gamed you – after they got you to do what they wanted, or after you say what they want to hear, or you’ve given them what they want…

Then the next time it happens, it’s a slightly different situation, and you have to try and spot the game all over again – but you still don’t have a plan or a technique to avoid playing it the next time it comes up.

And the worst part of this feeling I had about my social ability was that I had NO IDEA where or how to start turning it around. How do I learn these social skills that I saw other people using all the time…?

These people seemed like such master communicators with this GIFT for handling people. I had no idea where to start learning how they do it. After all, to get social skills and confidence, you need to hang out and talk to people… and I didn’t have the confidence to go hang out and talk to people, so how could I ever get those skills…?

I was in a catch-22! It was a double-bind.

I had nowhere to get started, and I spent over ten years in this frustrated state.

I literally felt like a rat in one of those mazes, trying desperately to find the secret exit to get out. Because I knew if I could just get a look at the maze from above instead of being stuck IN it, I could find the solution.

Then I finally figured it out…

 

“The Solution is to Step Back
And Use Simple Social Kung-Fu…”

I finally found a way to get myself on track, but it took a lot of work to figure it out – and it’s not something I would ever want you to have to find by trial and error. I know it’s not fun to beat your head against the wall just so it feels good when you stop.

The good thing is that you don’t have to go through that pain.

If you’re reading this right now, and you can identify with any of the situations I’ve just talked about, then what you’re about to read next is probably going to change your life – forever.

I’m not kidding – it’s THAT important.

You’ve probably experienced the frustration of being under the spell of a manipulative person at some point, haven’t you?

It’s disorienting and confusing, because you often don’t know how they managed to do to you what they did, but you’re left standing there, smacking your forehead and feeling like you’ve been had.

You didn’t see it coming, did you?

I went through years and years of research trying figure out what was happening in these social situations. I read TONS of self-help books, and very few of them really had any real explanation about what was happening. Nothing I found helped me to figure out the “rules” of these games people play. I even went to seminars on group and relationship dynamics, but no luck.

In the end, I didn’t get almost any of my strategies from those books or seminars.

I got these secrets from other PEOPLE.

I got very lucky to find some friends who I knew had some very powerful – and yet compassionate – methods for handling people who try to play games with you.

The funny thing was that when I pinned these “social naturals” down to help me out, most of them didn’t have the slightest idea they were using social strategies like this to manage game players and social manipulators. When I sat them down and described some of the things I saw that they were doing, they were as amazed as I was.

You see, they had learned these things on an intuitive level that you and I never got to develop.

If someone has won a social game situation, or avoided a manipulator or a socially dangerous personality, they’ve used a technique or tactic to do it. A “technique” is just knowing the right thing to say at the right time.

But here’s the best part:

If they have a method for handling social games, it can be broken down, taken apart, and you can learn it – just like any other skill out there.

AND you can use them to destroy the games you play in your own head, as well as the ones other people play with you.

“Here Are 3 Game Playing Personalities
You Must Be Able To Spot
Before They Manipulate You…”

As I studied these “naturals” at social strategy, there were three general types of people that these social experts all seemed to agree were the most dangerous – and the most important to spot before they game you. I want to tell you about all three right here so you can be on your guard…

GAME PLAYER 1: The Emotional Vampire

 

This is the person who we all know – usually a member of our family – that seems to just drain us dry of our energy. Every time you interact with them, your brain feels like you’ve just gone through a six hour final exam in algebra. You’re sapped and depleted.

And you simply dread talking to them.

Pretty soon, you just avoid being around them at all, if you can help it.

Another part of you realizes that if you do avoid them, then THEY are the ones who are still winning the game, even without you around.

But a lot of the time, you can’t avoid them because they’re your co-workers, or your family…

Sometimes it’s the person you’re in a serious relationship with.

 

• How do you spot this personality type?

Well, if you find yourself emotionally exhausted after dealing with a certain person in your life, and they leave you feeling worse than you did before you started talking with them, there’s a good chance this person is an emotional vampire.

They steal your energy with any number of subtle maneuvers, most you don’t notice until you’re caught up in their game, and by then it’s too late.

Also, if you find yourself dreading or resisting contact with this person because of the emotional drain they put on your batteries, chances are they’re a vampire of some kind.

If you’ve ever seen a name come up on your phone and you found yourself turning off the ringer without answering it, and there was no reason you couldn’t have taken the call – except maybe that sense of avoidance – well, you probably felt that person was going to be a potential vampire.

 

• How do you deal with them?

Don’t let them get their teeth in your neck!

The best defense here is a best offense, which is made up of my 3-part strategy:

1) Start by recognizing how they work, and being prepared for them up front.

You need to recognize their game before they blow the whistle and start the play. If you can’t see what they’re up to, you’ll probably find yourself just scratching your head later trying to figure out how you got twisted around their finger…

2) Let them make their first move…

You can’t just try to beat them to the punch, or the social player will just switch to a new tactic. You have to let them show you their cards, and then you can choose your own strategy.

3) And Then WATCH and MANAGE their play…

When they’ve revealed their cards, you can then use your own skills to create your own winning hand. (Okay I’m done with the game metaphors. Mostly.) Once you have them invested in their approach, you can then use it to steer the social dynamics toward a win-win finish.

That’s the really special thing about what I teach you – you’re going to learn how to get BOTH you and them to win!

What if you run into someone that doesn’t just drain your energy, but they try to get something from you? This is the next kind of gamer…

 

GAME PLAYER 2: The Emotional Blackmailer

 

This type of social game player plays games as a form of extortion – to get favors, or any number of possible rewards they can pull from the situation.

We’ve all played this one at some point or another. In its most innocent form, you may have just wanted to get a little appreciation from someone in your life.

Have you ever done a favor and said, “Oh, it was nothing…” but what you really wanted to hear was how it was a big something to the other person?

That’s a small kind of game. Innocent enough, but still a game.

Maybe you’ve met this kind of person:

• The woman who gets you to do favors for her because you fear being rejected or emotionally abandoned…
• The aunt that calls you up in the middle of the day to get your help running errands (when you already had things to do), but you can’t refuse her because she would gossip to everyone else in your family about just how “thoughtless” and “heartless” you are…
• The girlfriend who knows how to stroke your ego at the right time to make you feel manly one minute, but then she knows how to start withdrawing her approval and withholding affection because she knows you’ll work hard and do whatever she wants to get it back…
• The guy in a relationship that criticizes his girlfriend constantly to play on her insecurities and make sure she won’t leave him…
• The manager who knows exactly how to make you afraid that your performance appraisal will be bad if you don’t help his team out on their ‘special project’… After all, you don’t want to appear uncooperative, do you?

All of these people are playing a powerful kind of emotional game with us – Blackmail. What they do, through some subtle – and sometimes not-so-subtle games is put us in a position where we are forced to do something to avoid a nasty embarrassment of some kind.

The reason they do this is sometimes people don’t know the healthy way of getting what they want, so they use this game on us. They may not mean to play a game, but it comes out anyway.

 

• How do you spot this personality type?

If you feel like you did something against your will to avoid a negative outcome – an outcome that the other person could control – then chances are you were blackmailed.

 

• How do you deal with them?

The best offense is a great defense, and especially so with this type of game player.

Keep your eyes open, and don’t let their actions fly under your radar. Very often, the emotional blackmailer loses their ability to control you or manipulate you when you expose their game out into the open.

But there’s a particularly nasty game player that doesn’t try to hide it. In fact this type flaunts their power over you. It’s the…

GAME PLAYER 3: The Emotional Bully

 

Just like the bully on the playground, this is the person that pushes you around and uses you to achieve their own goals and ends.

• Maybe this is the person at work that pushes you into helping them for fear of their influence and power – or their ability to damage your career…
• Maybe this is the guy you met while you’re out at a club, and he intimidates you with his overbearing personality – or embarrasses you in public so that he can push you out of the picture, meet the woman you’re with, and steal her for himself…
• Maybe this is the woman that creates uncomfortable social situations – like crying fits or emotional tantrums – to get you to give in to her demands…

Quite honestly, these people can also be emotional terrorists.

Look, I know how charged a word that can be… Terrorist. Ouch.

I even debated mentioning it at all, but when I wrote it down, I knew that I was just telling the Truth.

(NOTE: When you’re pushed into shame about your politically “INcorrect” views or comments, this is also a form of game playing and emotional manipulation that people will often use to control you.)

 

• How do you spot this personality type?

The Emotional Bully is the kind of person can literally make your life a living hell with constant demands, emotional tirades, and total unpredictability. They leave you with a feeling of dread and anxiety 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

If you find yourself feeling this way, or pushed into doing things for another person frequently, you’re probably in a relationship with a bully.

 

• How do you deal with them?

If you sense that you might be dealing with an emotional bully, remember that these covert abusers are often very good at covering their tracks, so other people might not see what you are experiencing. The best way to start is to make a note of abusive incidents so that you can review them later on when your head is clear.

One thing that you must get in the habit of doing is to not let the emotions of a game playing situation run away from you so that you react badly and only make your situation worse.

But the good news is that the emotional bully responds to some very simple strategies that end their games FAST. They are, in fact, one of the easiest game players to deal with once you’ve identified them.

Is There Any Hope…?

What I thought was just one problem – not having social skills – was actually TWO problems in one.

The first problem was that I wasn’t SEEING the games people were playing and what they were doing.

The second problem was that even if I did identify what they were doing, I didn’t know what to do to avoid being manipulated.

I am excited to say that there is a happy ending to this story. For both me and you.

With all that I’ve told you, you might be thinking that everyone is out to get you, just waiting to make your life a living hell.

Don’t get paranoid. That’s not true at all. Most of the social gamers are not playing you intentionally, even when it seems like they are.

You see, these game-playing people didn’t grow up with a big fat reference book on their shelf called “How to Play Games With People.” They weren’t taught how to play games…well, at least not directly.

We learned how to play games and manipulate like this from examples of other people. Usually by our families. We saw what worked and what didn’t to get results, and we adopted those strategies.

Let’s face it:

Any situation where you’re being emotionally manipulated is an opportunity for you to shine – IF you know how to handle the game player, and WHAT TO SAY to end the confrontation correctly…

And the cool thing is…

“Now you can learn
how to manage people –
and avoid the games
and manipulation entirely…”

Oh, and an even cooler part of this is that once you can spot the games other people are playing, you can also get rid of your games.

Ahem …

Yes, you play games, too. We all do.

Once you accept this and learn the rules, the games aren’t a problem anymore.

In fact, you’ll find yourself looking forward to finding new and more intricate situations to figure out for yourself. It sounds funny, but you’ll actually feel excited to go find new and interesting people to talk with and get to know, because you’ll feel so confident and capable in your social ability.

It actually becomes FUN to play with people and get into social dynamics – no matter what kind, because you know that whatever someone can come up with, you have an arsenal of social skills of your own to handle them. And your social network will explode without you even realizing it.

And The Most Important
Part is This…

When you have developed these social skills, you’ll find that you can actually connect with people on a much deeper and more AUTHENTIC level than ever before.

I noticed that when I would talk to people, and I could get past the games, I was able to really establish an indestructible sense of rapport.

This happened with women, men – everyone I socialized with.

It got to the point where I had to start being very careful with this skill because people were forming some unhealthy dependencies on me. One woman even told me she felt like I understood her ten times more than her therapist…

Yikes!

You see, it’s not just about dealing with all the people out there as potential enemies that you have to protect yourself against. I don’t want you to think that I’m going to teach you how to be a fortress of solitude and lack that human compassion…

This is really about developing your vital social powers to the point where you can actually let down your guard and get REAL with people like you never thought possible.

Most people don’t realize just how counter-productive and unnecessary their social games are, and they desperately need the other person to help them get past the games.

That person can be YOU.

 

Did You Know…? If you’re a social introvert, that does not mean you’re shy and socially clueless… it just means that you get your energy from being alone rather than being in a big group of people. Unfortunately, being an introvert can lead to being social handicapped later on, so its important to understand how to work with your personality type… The worst thing you can do to a socially manipulative person is expose them. If you do, most often they will find a way to retaliate, or cause you even more problems down the road. Which is why you must know the strategies I teach to handle them… There are only 6 types of social game player personalities, and that’s ALL. Once you learn what they are, you can avoid being manipulated or hurt, and you can almost always get to a winning solution for both of you… If you understand these basic social skills, you create a “template” within your mind that allows you to handle any relationship – with any person…

“Here’s Something Truly Unique
And Incredible For
Your Social Skills…”

Until now, there was NOWHERE you could go to learn social skills and abilities like the ones I’ve discussed here.

You either had “it” or you didn’t… and if you didn’t, the only way you could figure these skills out was to be as thick-skulled as I am and spend years figuring it all out on your own.

A moment ago I told you about how I managed to capture some of these “natural” people – the men and women that are socially successful in any situation. They are like chameleons, able to blend into any social situation and make it work for them.

Well, their knack for social power can also work for YOU.

I managed to capture their techniques and their social strategies for you to learn.

What I did was create a home-study audio program where you can learn these Power Social Skills in your car, on the bus, or anywhere you like.

I just put the finishing touches on a personal development program called the “Power Social Skills – Social Dynamics” Program – where I will teach you how to handle or destroy any social games, avoid manipulation, identify the dangerous personalities out there, and get REAL & AUTHENTIC connection with just about anyone.

This program is the very first of its kind, designed from the ground up to help you overcome any of your social limitations and pull you out into the world like never before.

This program was created and structured to help you go from wherever you may be in your social abilities – from poor to average, or even good social ability – all the the way to COMPLETE SOCIAL MASTERY.

Unfortunately, most men and women NEVER learn more than a small fraction of the information that I’ve put together in this program – if they learn any of it at all.

Here Are The Specific Power Social Skills You’re Going to Learn in This Program:

 

“Here Are The Kinds of Social Games You’ll Learn About In This Social Dynamics Program:”

Games Lovers Play

Games Friends Play

Games Enemies Play

Games Families Play

Games Coworkers Play

Games From Authority
AND

Games You Play With Your Own Head – Self-esteem and Inner Games

You’ll learn how to SEE the games when they appear, UNDERSTAND how the social dynamics work, KNOW what the other person is trying to accomplish with the game, have the RIGHT WORDS to say to them, and ACHIEVE REAL CONNECTION with them…

One thing I wanted when I was working hard on my social skills was a playbook that would just explain all the ways we play each 0ther when we’re in conversations…

Or with our families…

Or at parties…

Or at work…

The list goes on and on.

But I couldn’t find a book even remotely like this ANYWHERE. No self-help book had anything like it, or any of the tape and CD programs I got.

So I made one myself.

In fact, in my Power Social Skills program, I devoted 5 whole hours to cover all the tricky tactics and devices people will use to influence you and turn you around. When I let a few of my friends listen to them, every one of them said they would have paid anything to get this kind of priceless information.

I Expose Every One of These Social Games,
and Show You How to Win Every One of Them:

Salting the Jar Game The Reject and Retreat Game The Abusive Expectations Game The Invalidation Abuse Games The Minimizing Game Trivializing Game The Unpredictable Responses Game Vilifying the Victim Game Playing the Servant Game Pretend Confusion game The Disempowered Game Let Me Quit First Game The Approval Junkie Game The Blame Game The Atlas Syndrome The “You’re Too Happy” Game The “You Made Me” Game The “Redefine the Past” Game “Yeah, I know but…” Game The Withholding Game The Boys & Girl Games The You Monster Game The complainer game The “Being Offended” Game The Paralysis game The Argument Game The Truth-Telling Game The “I don’t understand you” Game The “Do it for me” Game The Politeness Game The Small Dig Game The Start a Fight Game The “He Hit Me First” Game The Distorted Question Game The “BUT” Game The “People Should” Game The “So now you’re on their side…?” Game The “Just Being Honest” Game The “Idol Worship” Game The Machine Gun Question Game The Silence Your Dreams Game The Condescending Apology Game The Denial Game The Explosion Game

The “How Are You” Game The Collector Game The Denying game The Labeling Game The Upset Game Ask a question to be smart Game Conspicuous Boredom Game The Questioning Game The Sympathy Game The Demanding Love Game The Pressure Game The Comparison Game The Rescuer Game The Justification Game The Deadly Why Game The conditioned acceptance Game The “I couldn’t help it…” Game The “You did WHAT…?” Game The “But you said…” Game The “How could you!” Game The “Woe Is Me” Game The Whining Game The “It’s Not Fair” Game The Shark Attack Game The Royal “We” Game The Shifting Balance of Power Game The Presupposition game The Silence Game The Manipulation Question Game The Third-Man Game The Quick Flip Game The Don’t Attack the Victim Game The “Disappointed” Game The “Forgiving” Game The “Demand and Command” Game The Go Away – Come Closer Game The “I Know Your Script” Game The Relentless Game The Assumed Accomplishment Game The Commandment Game The Dominance Game The Subtle Straw Man Game The Eenie-Meenie Game The Expert Game

The Fake emergency game The proxy attacker Game The Emotional Backlash Game The Questioning Your Problem game The Telling You Your Feelings Game Defend the other person Game Negating/denying/confusing Games Sarcasm and Mocking Games Guilt Trip Games The Cliche Game The Intolerance Game The Intentional Eavesdrop Game Winning the Silent Treatment Game The Lying Game The “I Love You” Game The Excessive Gratitude Game The Gift Giving Game The “Label the Monster” Game The Self Put-down Game The “They say…” Game The “Why can’t you be more like…” Game The Keep Up Appearances Game The Liar Game The Already Over Game The “You Should Have…” Game The “Why did you do it that way…?” Game The “You said THIS before” Game The “If Only…” Game The Blame Game The “How could you!” Game The Talker Game The Veiled Threat Game Fear of Success Game The Feathers Game The Flake Game The Flattery Game The “Give Them a Choice” Game The Go/No-Go Game The Joker Game The Prove Yourself Game The Put You In Your Place Game The Scrambled Defense Game The Explanation Game

 

You’ve probably played more than your fair share of these social games with people before. You may have noticed their games, or more likely you didn’t even see them coming.

You may have been manipulated by this game player, or you might have gotten out of the game by luck.

But one thing is for sure:

Once you’ve listened to this program, you won’t be pulled into them again.

 

How You Can Know If This Program Is For You…

There’s an important reason why I feel that EVERY person out there needs to have a copy of this program, and I’ll come back to this in a moment.

First, you need to know if this is a program that will work specifically for YOU.

Read these questions – either aloud or in your head – and answer them. As you go through each one, you’ll find yourself thinking about how your life will be different when you’re able to solve these situations on your own…

• • Does it feel like when you meet people out in social situations that you have ALMOST NO ability to really connect with them? Or worse, they just don’t seem to want to start a friendship of any kind with you?
  • Do you ever feel frustration when you’re manipulated by other people, and knowing that if you could just figure out how to respond, you could avoid the pain and make things work better for you – AND for them?
  • Do you worry about getting too “close” to people, because the more that you open yourself up to them, the more power you could be giving them to possibly hurt you or manipulate you down the road?
  • Do you find yourself getting angry at someone you feel has manipulated you … and the next minute you’re the best of friends again when they figure out how to push your buttons and win you over again? You hate yourself for it, but you can’t help it… they’re just so good at playing you.
  • Do you ever experience sadness or frustration that you’re not able to connect with people on a meaningful level that feels REAL to you?
  • Do you ever feel like some people are just “fake,” even though you know there is something more going on under the surface – if you could just get past all their tricks and game-playing?
  • Do you ever feel slighted or hurt when you know other friends are getting called to participate in events, but you’re not included on those plans, and you think that it might have something to do with how social you are?
  • Have you ever felt “lost” in a conversation, not knowing what happened – but that something DID happen and you missed out on the subtle clues?
  • Do you feel like you repeat your interactions with people again and again, not being able to figure out how to break the unhealthy cycle of arguments, games, or weirdness with them?
  • Do you feel like you’re not on a level playing field with the opposite sex, or your family, or other people who play you all the time – and you feel at a constant disadvantage?
  • Do you often feel that a lot of the games people are playing can be pretty innocent at heart, even unintentional, but they could also be steered to a much better ending – helping both of you win the game?
  • Are you frequently caught off guard by questions from people, not sure how you should respond to them? Or if there’s a meaning below the surface of what they’re asking you?
  • Do you feel uncomfortable with confrontations and awkward social situations?
  • Do you feel like you could repair or improve relationships with people in your family – or even friends – if you could just figure out how to communicate better with them?
  • Would you like to get more romantic connections and dating opportunities?
  • Would you like to make more friends by having better social skills and more authentic interactions with other people?
  • Would you like to feel the happiness and confidence of being more skilled with social interactions, knowing that you can get the results you want?
  • Wouldn’t it feel fantastic to get phone calls all the time from other people asking you to go out with them and enjoy new experiences, and have so many people calling that you have trouble finding the time to get together with them all?

The reason I asked about those situations is because I feel that most everyone – men and women- have had similar experiences or felt this way at some point or another.

 

“Sometimes we’ve felt the pain of these situations much more than we care to admit…”

 And each of those situations I just described just leads down a longer road of frustration and unhappiness when you realize that you’re not getting any better at handling the game players and manipulators. And that you can’t seem to connect with people the way you’d like.

These are also the problem situations that I personally had to overcome.

I isolated these particular situations because these are just some of the ones that we’ll tackle in the Power Social Skills – Social Dynamics Program. We’ll be able to resolve them and get you feeling comfortable in any social situation, confident that you will NOT be gamed ever again.

As I mentioned before, if you have social challenges of any kind, then they will always be the limiting part of your relationships with other people – just like the weakest link in a chain determines its strength.

If you don’t build your relationships with other people on a strong foundation of powerful social skills, you’ll always be trying to “catch up” to other people … and you’ll probably feel way behind in your ability to manage the games people try to pull you into.

This may seem like a huge area to tackle – your social skills – but fortunately when you address just a few key areas, as we will in this program, the rest will actually take care of themselves along the way.

If you found yourself relating to ANY of those situations, and if you’ve ever wanted to discover how to relate better to the important people in your life, then you owe it to yourself to try my Power Social Skills – Social Dynamics Program.

I really feel this is the most exciting thing I’ve created in the last ten years of helping people with their relationships and understanding interpersonal dynamics.

 

Here Are a Few Success Stories From My Students…

 

 

Why You Owe It To Yourself
And Every Person You Meet
For the Rest Of Your Life
To Learn These Power Social Skills Immediately…

What makes this program different?

Quite simply, it’s the only one of its kind, as I’m sure you can tell by now. There has never been such a complete description of what all the dysfunctional social games we play are, why we do it, who the people are that play these games, and HOW to overcome and win them EVERY time.

Something I learned on this path to personal enrichment is that every skill – even social skills – can be learned if you just practice the right way.

You see, I think it’s like this…

“People everywhere want to make more friends, have deeper and more meaningful relationships, and just get past all that weirdness that we tend to throw into our social lives…”

But no one teaches us these SKILLS.

They’re all too happy to send us to therapists and psychologists to diagnose our problems, but they don’t show us how to effectively deal with the people we CAN’T change… namely, everybody else!

I got sick of being manipulated and gamed by other people, and I finally found a way out of it, AND to create real connections that count with other people so that everyone wins.

Social games are just like a secret code people use to figure each other out, and the Power Social Skills – Social Dynamics Program is the universal decoder to get you past the games as fast as possible. Because as much as we would like to get rid of all games with people, they’re here to stay.

But the person who understands the rules of the games can get to the finish line faster, and stay sane in the process.

Even if you are already good with people… you owe it to yourself to get this program… and learn how to create that powerful charisma that very, very few people will ever know how to do…

Here’s How It All Works…

When you click on the order button below, you’ll go to my secure order page for your credit card information. When you use my secure order form, you’ll be able to download the bonuses right away, including the e-books as an Adobe Acrobat PDF file.

Your transaction is secure – using our secure servers, and your order information is sent using the latest SSL encryption technology to ensure complete and total privacy and security. The transaction will be discreetly billed to you as ‘DD Publications’ with our contact number included.

The whole process takes just a few minutes and you’ll be reading your introductory e-book and watching your bonus seminar video in about 5 minutes.

When you get the program, take a listen through them right away. Just scan through it a couple times and note the sections that jump out at you immediately – then go back and listen to it from start to finish. There’s a LOT of information here, but it’s easy to listen to and digest.

Next, be sure to use the techniques I teach in the program, too. You’ll notice a huge difference right away, and it will motivate you to move on to some of the other ideas.

Whatever happens, you’ll let this program work fo you – and the additional bonus materials as a reference library constantly as you’re learning how to be more successful with your Power Social Skills – Social Dynamics Program.

 

Here’s What You’re Going to Get…

Here’s the list of everything I include in the Power Social Skills – Social Dynamics Program:

• Reference E-book with 38 pages of top-quality easy to read and understand notes. This book highlights all the points from the nearly 18 hours of content on these discs. You won’t have to spend all your time taking notes, and you’ll be able to refer to it over and over again. (Worth $79.97)
• BONUS VIDEO SEMINAR – Social Games Live – 108 minutes of video – Carlos Xuma ‘s Games Seminar discussing social games, how they’re played, and handling the women that play them. You’re going to hear some very honest and powerful stories on this program, and you’ll learn more solutions and insights to help you win the games. (Worth $89.97)
• The audio program with Over 17 (SEVENTEEN) hours of coaching, tips, game descriptions, personality explanations, techniques, and strategies to get you confident and successful in any social situation. These discs cover specific topics on developing your Power Social Skills – Social Dynamics Program with everyone in your life, from your coworkers to your girlfriend to your family – I touch on everything. (Worth $397.97)
• Access to my exclusive members ONLY Alpha Man Power Forum where you’ll be able to exchange techniques, tips, and advice with the other Alpha Men on topics ranging from building your confidence, to how to meet women, to health and fitness. Every so often I will even post answers to questions and conduct surveys and polls. This is one community that you absolutely must be a part of! (Worth $49.97)

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