Catch Him And Keep Him What Every Woman Should Know About How To Catch Her Mr. Right… And Keep Him For Good. Introduction One evening you’re spending a romantic dinner with a man you’re dating and you spring a question on him and wait for him to respond. You say: “What do you think about us… You know… about the future?” Or you say something like… “I don’t feel like you tell me about your feelings…. How do you feel about where this is going? You know, about our relationship?” So you’ve asked a simple question right? And when he can’t answer you in a positive way, which men often do in these situations, you become upset or disappointed.